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We Live in the Age of Emotional Misinformation
The age of emotional misinformation is here â but so are we, the women rewriting its code.
Letâs be honest: we live in strange times.
Gen Z is de-stressing with baby pacifiers.
Parents are being scientifically outed for having a favourite child.
And women with ADHD are still being told theyâre just lazy.
This isnât just chaos â itâs emotional misinformation. Not the kind you fact-check on Snopes. The kind that creeps into your relationships, your workplace, your self-worth.
The kind that tells women to be quiet, be grateful, be less. And Iâm done with it.
đ§ Emotional Literacy Is a Tech Issue. We talk about misinformation like itâs all fake news and deepfakes.
But what about the emotional signals we misread, ignore, or distort?
⢠When a woman speaks up in a meeting and gets labelled âdifficult.â
⢠When a girl cries and is told sheâs âtoo sensitive.â
⢠When someone says theyâre burnt out and we reply, âYou just need to be more resilient.â
Thatâs emotional misinformation. And itâs costing us innovation, inclusion, and actual human connection.
âBecause if we canât read emotions accurately offline, what chance do our algorithms have online?

đť Why Women Must Build the Systems That Listen Tech isnât neutral.
It reflects the biases of its creators. If women arenât in the room â designing the platforms, coding the logic, shaping the culture â then emotional nuance gets lost in translation.
We need systems that:
⢠Validate neurodivergent experiences, not dismiss them.
⢠Recognise emotional labour, not exploit it.
⢠Empower quiet leadership, not just loud charisma. This isnât about making tech âsofter.â Itâs about making it smarter â emotionally, ethically, and socially.
đ§Ź What You Can Learn (and Unlearn)
Hereâs your mini emotional misinformation checklist:
â Just because someoneâs coping mechanism looks strange (hello, pacifiers) doesnât mean itâs invalid.
â Just because someoneâs diagnosis makes you uncomfortable doesnât mean itâs not real.
â Just because someoneâs contribution isnât loud doesnât mean itâs not valuable. And if youâve ever felt overlooked, underestimated, or emotionally gaslit â youâre not alone. Youâre not broken. Youâre living in a system that wasnât built with you in mind. Letâs change that.

đĄ TechSheThink Challenge: Build Better Signals. This week, I challenge you to:
⢠Write a post that celebrates someoneâs emotional intelligence.
⢠Share a time you were misunderstood â and what you learned.
⢠Design a tool, prompt, or poem that helps people feel seen. Because emotional misinformation thrives in silence. And women? We were born to disrupt silence.

đ§ Final Thought:
We donât need to be louder. We need to be clearer. We need to be coders of care, architects of empathy, and engineers of emotional truth. The age of emotional misinformation is here.
Letâs be the ones who rewrite it.
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